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August 1

The legend of George Mallory

Influence, Leadership, Legacy, No Optin

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To achieve anything great, you must accept an element of risk. The question that begs to be answered is, what does “great” mean to you? In the classic book Walden; or, Life in the Woods, author Henry David Thoreau wrote the famous words, “The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.” Does this mean you live in desperation, or does it mean you are to live life to its fullest because you only live once?

Climbing Mt. Everest

Let me tell you a quick story about a man named George Mallory. Mr. Mallory was born in Cheshire England on June 18, 1886 to a long line of clergymen. He was a good student, attending Winchester College and University of Cambridge. After completing school, he became a schoolmaster. What George Mallory was best known for was that he led the first expedition up mount Everest.  His first attempt was in 1921. The second attempt took place a year later in 1922. In the first attempt of the 1922 expedition, they reached a height of 27,300 feet (8,230 meters) but could go no further. A few days later they tried again, and were caught in an avalanche that killed seven porters. His final and fatal attempt came in 1924. Before he left on the expedition, it was asked of him why people tried to climb mount Everest to which he is famously quoted to have said, “because it’s there.”

I do not necessarily believe just “because” is a good reason to do anything.  In life there are risks, and to achieve what you desire or to make progress towards a goal, you need to take risks. I believe there are risks that are not wise but there are some risks that could be good and calculated. Here are 3 ways to help you understand a calculated risk. 

  • Know what success is to you. A challenge in today’s world is that there are so many choices. Furthermore, media is trying to tell you what success is.  Some say success is a bigger car or house, having lots of “friends,” being able to show-off your experiences and possessions on your news feed, etc.   From my life’s experiences, I am seeing more and more that media’s definition of success is creating bigger holes or often more desperation for people because people are not able to live up to the social standards. Take some time and think about what is important to you. Is it family, time in nature, or maybe experiencing great conversations with your closest friends? You do not have to live the rat race and live up to social media standards!
  • Live a balanced life. I firmly believe that God has made us to enjoy life and all that it has to offer. It is not about the money, although we do need money to live. Check out this lesser known quote from Henry David Thoreau. “If the day and the night are such that you greet them with joy, and life emits a fragrance like flowers and sweet-scented herbs, is more elastic, more starry, more immortal, - that is your success.” Work hard but also make sure you are scheduling and taking the time to find joy.
  • Live a full life! This might be the risk we are the most fearful of. There tends to be an imbalance between working hard and detaching from work to play hard. I use the term fear here because our identity is tied to our work or job. It can engulf and control our thoughts and actions. I say this from experience! We need better time management, but as leadership expert Brian Tracy states, we need “better life management.” You have more control than you think!    

Living in quiet desperation does not mean solitude.  If you read the story by Thoreau, you would see his intentions were to live a full life. The web site Art of Manliness stated this about what Thoreau was saying in that phrase, “True success in Thoreau’s view thus cannot be understood in terms of monetary or conventional values, or even in the kinds of epic adventures that show well on Instagram.” As you think about taking risks and achieving great things, listen to what George Mallory’s son, John Mallory, said about his father, “I would so much rather have known my father than to have grown up in the shadow of a legend, a hero, as some people perceive him to be.”

"We need better time management, but as leadership expert Brian Tracy states, we need “better life management.” You have more control than you think!"

Life is not about being someone great in the world’s eyes, but rather, it is about being impactful in the lives that you influence. Stop and think about what success means to you and decide to live a more balanced life. Who are you influencing today?

Not sure what success means to you? Contact me to go through a free “no pressure consultation here!


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